This question was always asked by you, and i admit that i wasn't always giving you a clear answer, yes i'm single, and yes i'm not having any romance in my life, but this time i'll answer this question openly so yo will understand PYG's Whisper in love! and i'm sorry if this will break your hope! i don't fall in love easily with anyone, but if i do i won't move on easily!
Q10- What is the meaning of love for poets and PYG? And who is PYG’s ideal type?
Poets are humans too, we aren’t from another planet, we have different tastes and visions too, but we all believe in everlasting love, we believe in eternity, we believe that love heals all kind of illness, that depression doesn’t need any therapy but it needs love, we don’t believe that distance kills love, that love could be ended without any reason, that work passes before love!
For me love is, wanting it first before needing it. It’s so different when you say ‘ I need love’ and ‘ I want love’ I will give you a simple example: when your phone is broken you will look for a new one , you will just say “ I need a phone that could install the apps I used before, I don’t care witch brand just a good one “ that's ‘cause you are needing it for your business maybe, and actually you can’t stay without it, and when you get a chance you will get yourself another one more developed, so it’s temporary ! but when you say ”I don’t care how long I will stay without a phone, I won’t buy anything if I won’t get an Iphone” , here you know what you want it’s something you aren’t ready to let go of it, even if it breaks into 1 million pieces, you will do everything to repair it, even if it dies forever you will keep it safe with you as a memory, even if there will be new generation of Smartphone with advanced features much better and modern, even if that phone will give you such a hard time and you know it’s full of flaws, you won’t change it ! ‘Cause you know it got everything that could make you feel satisfied, complete and happy with it so you can handle the rest! That’s love for PYG!
When I decide to be with someone it means I want him forever, despite the hardships, problems the up and down of life and even if his life will change with time I won’t think of letting him go ‘cause I still want his presence and think about him the same way, despite having all the world beside me I will only want to talk with that person, even if I’m sad and I can get the perfect comfort from other persons I will only be wanting his comfort! When I’m in love, I don’t even think of “what if we break up? “ Separation for me is “death”, beside it there’s nothing could smash this love, that’s love for me, but unfortunately, boys now look for love when they are feeling bored, lonely and kind of empty, they say I need a girlfriend, it’s a selfish need, just to complete this void inside them for awhile, ignoring that this girl maybe is seeing ‘ eternity’ in their eyes, once they feel like they need something new, that girl isn’t giving them the feeling they need today, and they look for something different they leave with no regret ‘cause they didn’t want a special feeling a special RS, a special girl, but they needed random person to make them feel good, once they are getting better they say : Ciao Bella. And yeah I'm that kind who even if I'm left alone I will forever be waiting for that person 'cause i want him not need him, since you want love you will be patient, and you'll sacrifice and leave you pride behind, but when you need it, you will look for various alternatives methods and ways to fill this need...
My ideal type like I said many times, is someone like me, who believes in everlasting love, who can express his emotions, who fights for me as much as I fight for him, who is scared to lose me, who doesn’t look down on my heart, who believes what I say only, not what his entourage says, who has his own meaning of love, who believes that I can heal his sadness, who is sure that I've got everything he wants, and never think of leaving me or replacing me! but most importantly, I want a natural born artist, I don’t mean famous or celebrity person, but I don’t accept someone who hasn’t an artistic passion and an artistic project ( something like PYG's world) , and who doesn’t speak English , who doesn’t read and write often who doesn't care about my poetry! I don’t care about money, but I want someone who has a big imagination, who plays with words, someone who respects love and doesn’t threat me or make me feel lonely even when he’s with me, someone who doesn't lie to me! someone with whom I don’t need to feel anxious if I get pimple on my face or I get too skinny or I get flaws on my body, honestly I don’t like face to face RS, 'cause I dislike going out for dates, I truly dislike it, I’m more into distance RS, ‘cause it fits my personality, I can’t express myself face to face well as I do when I’m using words. And I don’t like being touched or feel someone's hands over me, in my imagination it sounds cool LOL, so I prefer spiritual love and passion! -PYG's Whisper
Thanks for being so thoughtful and helping me express myself more through your interesting questions.
I hope that you enjoyed my 4th anniversary celebration ^^
let's meet again in the nearer future
kisses & HUGS
-PYG's Whisper
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